Are you kind to others?
"Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another." Romans 2:10
Are you kind in your actions? In your words? In your tone of voice? Would your brothers and sisters in Christ say that they know you "prefer" them? - Do your actions show that you have affection for them? That you do indeed prefer them?
Do you put the needs of others, whether they be physical or emotional, before your own?
"Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves." Philippians 2:3
Would your brothers and sisters in Christ say that you "lift them up"? -esteem them better than you do yourself? Do your actions show that you value others more than you value yourself? Does your tone of voice show a peaceful, loving, humble attitude or does it show strife and vainglory?
"A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh." Luke 6:45
By the standards of this verse, are your actions, words, attitude, or tone, good or evil?
The way we treat others is a direct result of what is in our hearts.
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit." Galatians 5:22-25
Christian, are you walking in the Spirit? Would your sisters and brothers in Christ say, they know you are a Christian by your love??
Note: I do include myself as part of the pronoun "your". This is a post of self examination for myself as well.